I find problems - that's what I have been doing - and I fix them - that's also something that I have been doing.

If I can't find a problem in something, then I can't give suggestion to fix it - and I feel disappointed with myself.

So, it's not you, it's me - I have the urge to identify problems in almost everything, and I try to push myself and others in fixing those problems.

Almost everything that you would share with me would have "some" scope of improvement, and my initial/knee-jerk reaction would be to identify the problem and share the solution.

Don't be mad/sad about that - that's just the way I am - I am pretty sure I am not so proud of myself here, but I believe this is important for the sake of improvement in our lives.

The day I stop complaining/giving-suggestions/finding-problems - that's the day either I am dead, you are a perfectionist or I don't care...